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hookslovelyswan:

strawwolf: wi

srushtinator:

Pretty much sums up how I and many others feel. 

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Tbh i think what the writers were trying to tell us was, it’s not always a happy ending, bad things happen in life and IT’S TRUE, alot of us will probably find out as we get older hat it’s not always the happy ending you wanted, and i think hey just were being very realistic, because lets be honest, that would happen IRL.

angstbotfic

angstbotfic:

catherineisbored:

angstbotfic:

catherineisbored:

catherineisbored:

It’s not worth fighting OVER A TV SHOW!

If you have your opinions, feel free to express them in a way that does’nt hurt anyone else, especially actors who are just trying to do there jobs. It’s fine to express your opinion just do it so no one gets their feelings hurt,…

Maybe that wasn’t the right choice of words, and I’m sorry if I’ve hurt anyone’s feelings, I’m not personally attacking any part of the fandom, i was simply just trying to convey the message to as many people as possible who watch the show.

okay, but here is what everyone who makes these sorts of arguments (not just you) needs to understand: this isn’t about “not getting our way.”

if CS and OQ had happened in some way that wasn’t deeply appalling to me as a feminist and a media scholar, i would have happily ignored them and hung out in subtextland as i have done with every other show since time immemorial.

we actually aren’t fighting over a TV show, at least in my corner. the complaints aren’t just personal opinion, they’re about larger histories, and presents, and potentially futures, of inequality.

I do honestly feel where you are coming from and i respect you for standing up for waht you believe, i respect all swan queen fans for standing up for something they truly believe in, i know not to post in specific tags because it is personally targeting people, i get that now,but i just think we all need to respect eachother’s opinions alot more, because that’s all they are OTHER poeple’s opinions, so i know where you are coming from, i was just so over all the arguing and bitterness between these fandom’s i don’t know, i’m just over that fighting now.

and yes, i respect that people like things i find appalling. i wish they didn’t. i wish they had the knowledge i have so they wouldn’t, but sure: if you like a thing, like that thing.

but i can’t respect the thing itself—the things about the show that are deeply misogynist, heterosexist, racist, rapey, etc. too many shippers cannot differentiate the two and take critique of the show personally, and that’s where the hostility tends to start. 

, yes, i agree , but although i don’t agree that what i ship represents that, i completely respect your opinion.

emilievitnux

catherineisbored:

Why is there so much hate in this fandom, it seriously needs to stop.

catherineisbored:

It’s not worth fighting OVER A TV SHOW!

If you have your opinions, feel free to express them in a way that does’nt hurt anyone else, especially actors who are just trying to do…

Okay, well i know not to post in that tag now.

angstbotfic

angstbotfic:

catherineisbored:

catherineisbored:

It’s not worth fighting OVER A TV SHOW!

If you have your opinions, feel free to express them in a way that does’nt hurt anyone else, especially actors who are just trying to do there jobs. It’s fine to express your opinion just do it so no one gets their feelings hurt,…

Maybe that wasn’t the right choice of words, and I’m sorry if I’ve hurt anyone’s feelings, I’m not personally attacking any part of the fandom, i was simply just trying to convey the message to as many people as possible who watch the show.

okay, but here is what everyone who makes these sorts of arguments (not just you) needs to understand: this isn’t about “not getting our way.”

if CS and OQ had happened in some way that wasn’t deeply appalling to me as a feminist and a media scholar, i would have happily ignored them and hung out in subtextland as i have done with every other show since time immemorial.

we actually aren’t fighting over a TV show, at least in my corner. the complaints aren’t just personal opinion, they’re about larger histories, and presents, and potentially futures, of inequality.

I do honestly feel where you are coming from and i respect you for standing up for waht you believe, i respect all swan queen fans for standing up for something they truly believe in, i know not to post in specific tags because it is personally targeting people, i get that now,but i just think we all need to respect eachother’s opinions alot more, because that’s all they are OTHER poeple’s opinions, so i know where you are coming from, i was just so over all the arguing and bitterness between these fandom’s i don’t know, i’m just over that fighting now.